#but after you get to make absolute bank. like unfathomable amounts of money

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Law of Attraction

Or abundance or whatever it is :P Going to talk on that today since it’s been on my mind.

A few weeks ago now, I signed up for this free webinar that was advertised on one of the ASMR YouTube videos I use to fall asleep. The only reason I signed up for the webinar was because it was free, and because I’ve been in a rough spot financially for a long time now and figured I had very little to lose. An hour out of a Wednesday afternoon seemed like an okay trade for something that I could maybe potentially use.

My attitude towards folks who promote or advocate for this idea of an abundant universe and the law of attraction and things like that has been rather negative in the past. Oftentimes they strike me as snake oil salesmen - folks who sell books titled ‘how to get rich quick’ and things like that where the answer is ‘write and publish a book titled “how to get rich quick” and wait for gullible saps to buy it’. My ex had a few of those books on topics like how to become a millionaire through real estate and the like, and his mother was a realtor so, he had no shortage of support there. But, like I said, in the process of pursuing those kinds of get-rich-quick schemes, you’re really just lining someone else’s pockets while obtaining information that may not even be useful to yourself in your specific situation. So I viewed folks pushing this idea of the law of attraction in a similar way - just very sketchy, negative, snake oil peddlers that really just wanted to sell me on more such talks and line their own pockets while mine became increasingly more barren.

Well, let me tell you how the webinar actually went down.

It was on a website called Mindvalley.com, with Harv Eker and Vishen Lakhiani. I decided that, it seemed to have a sort of spiritual/psychological bent to it from the ad seemingly, so that if it had advice that would help me build up my self-esteem or something like that, just overall improve my mental state by a fair margin through this talk, then it would 100% be worth my time. And like I said before, I had very little to lose spending an hour watching a free webinar on abundance.

At the end of it, they did offer some courses - extremely pricey ones that had been ‘discounted’ like 95%, but 5% was still something like three hundred dollars. I had little doubt in my mind that those might help someone else watching, but I was not interested and I wanted to come away from this having invested only my time anyways. And I didn’t, and still don’t, have a spare $300 lying around.

But I felt amazing by the time the webinar wrapped up.

Literally amazing. Spiritually empowered, ready to take on anything, incredibly emboldened and like nothing could stop me, nothing could hold me back anymore. It was an exhilarating feeling that rocked me to my core. I went into it having spent nothing and came out of it feeling like I’d just won the lottery, in spite of my bank account still showing negative digits. Nothing could crush me at that point - the reality of my situation hadn’t left me, but I felt markedly different about it.

I had to get on Discord and tell Mike about it right away. Mike, though he’s my best friend for life and I love him dearly, instantly had some negativity of his own to share re: the american political system and how the rich get richer while the poor get worse all the time - And that’s real life, unfortunately, and I’m not going to dismiss that. But that’s entirely the wrong attitude to have.

Here are some key concepts/key ideas that I took away from the webinar and would like to share with you folks:

1. Your attitude towards money is all wrong.

I’m being totally serious, and I think that this is something that a lot of people struggle with throughout their lives. If you aren’t born with it then you feel like you’re constantly scraping by. Your parents are always talking about debt and how they’re always scraping by too - I know mine were. I could write a book about all the wrong things my parents did just relating to money. Maybe someday I actually will :)

Your relationship with money is a major factor in how much you receive or what you have to do to get it. If you believe you can only make a lot of money by working hard, then that’s what you’ll have to do. If you feel like you’re always drowning in debt, then you will always be drowning in it. If you believe deep down that you’re unworthy of a lot of money, then you’ll never have a lot of money. You subconsciously reject money if you believe deep down that you’re not worth it. This can manifest in refusing a job promotion because you don’t think you’ve earned it, not applying for a job in the first place because you don’t meet the qualifications, or deciding against some action related to business (current or one you haven’t started yet) because it’s a lot of time investment, will keep you away from your family, a lot of money invested, etc. etc. etc. These really are excuses, because there are always affordable business loans, way to maintain work/life balance and family time, or accepting that promotion because it may just be a stepping stone towards something even better. You can’t know where it’ll take you until you try.

We make excuses to refuse money all the time, even if we don’t realize it. What about flipping the script for once and reasoning out with ourselves why we deserve money instead?

2. Jealousy and envy will do nothing but hold you back.

This is a tough one, but it ties into point one that attitudes about money are all wrong. If you hold it inside yourself that people who have a lot of money don’t deserve it, and spite and scorn them for having it, then you will never have it for yourself.

Harv said something that I thought was rather beautiful - “If you see someone with a big beautiful house, bless that house.” How wonderful that that family should have such a nice place to live, no? How wonderful that they have new, safe cars to drive for them and their children. No sarcasm involved. If you think positively about it for them, then this allows you to open yourself up to having those beautiful things as well.

3. Money is not evil.

Think about it. We talk (and Mike talked) about how guys like Jeff Bezos have enough money hoarded away when they could instead just snap their fingers and solve global poverty just like that.

If a construction worker decided one day to brain his coworker with a hammer, would you blame the hammer? No. Money is like the hammer - nothing but a tool to be used by the person wielding it. Money cannot make conscious decisions for itself, is not sentient, and is in fact entirely neutral as to whose hands it comes into.

It is completely possible to be rich and be a good person. One of my favourite random sayings that I carry with me when I’m looking for my next course of action is “Be the example”. Get your well-deserved money and then demonstrate it. Help you, because you probably need it, and then help those in need. You can absolutely be a good person with money because the two are not mutually exclusive, but of course don’t set yourself on fire to keep others’ warm. You can’t pull people up and out of their troubles if you’re still standing on unstable ground. Believe me, I’ve tried XD

4. Unfortunately, you don’t just magically get this money. You still have to do something for it.

In the webinar they talked about finding your life’s purpose and then living your purpose - something I still struggle with in spite of my elevated feelings immediately following said webinar. I am still not quite sure what my purpose is - I have a feeling, and I think it’s a good one (trying to build understanding between people and groups of people for everyone’s health and happiness), but I have other struggles that still block me.

The examples they gave related to business primarily. Harv was trying to start up businesses that didn’t work and were geared towards one thing, and Vishen was just struggling with his existing business. I think the important takeaway from their individual talks about it though is this: Work your passion. Find out what your passion is, get good at it, and then live and work your passion. They say that if you love your work then you’ll never work a day in your life, right? This idea is basically that in practice.

5. There is no such thing as having too much money.

Least of all when it comes to yourself :P

I used to do this thing where I’d play the lottery (yes I still play every week, shut up) and I would think to myself “I only need a million dollars to live comfortably the rest of my life. Anything beyond that is too much.” That was because I couldn’t appreciate the scope of having more than a cool mil. There is a factor of scale that just boggles my mind. A million dollars is already a lot of money, an almost unfathomable amount. The only frame of reference is that my house is probably worth about a quarter-mil right now. I could buy four of my house with one million dollars.

Well, I refuse to impose limits on myself like that anymore.

Bring on the 60 million dollar grand prize! This is my attitude now. There is still a part of me that sort of recoils at the idea of that money, but then I internally try to push that back with a follow-up thought of ‘just think about the number of people I could help with that money’. If Jeff Bezos won’t single-handedly solve poverty world-wide, then maybe I can. Give me that cool 60 mil, I am open to it and down to receive any sort of excess the universe wants to throw at me. I’ll make use of every single cent :D

6. I saw immediate results after embracing this way thinking.

This is absolutely true, and I have witnesses who can attest to that :)

After watching this seminar, within a few days of doing so, I had a room listed for rent online on a local classifieds website. My inbox exploded. I can’t even fathom how many responses I got, but it was easily upwards of fifty different people replying to my ad. Not only did I get the room rented, I got a second room I didn’t even list rented as well.

I also received some amazing and generous donations to my main blog’s Kofi from some amazingly generous friends of mine from here on Tumblr. I didn’t even ask, they just showed up and I was so thankful I cried.

A good long-time friend of mine was also generous enough to offer me a loan of $1000 USD in order to cover my bills and some other upcoming expenses. Initially I refused the loan, but after taking a second look at my finances, I decided to accept it and hope to pay it back in full by Christmas.

Now, I’m not sure how I feel about the idea of an abundant universe - I went into this as a skeptic and I came out still a bit skeptical - but there are definitely attitudes within me that can change so I can provide myself with more opportunities to find abundance in my own life. I went into this thing looking to boost up my esteem and got that in spades.

It all exemplifies something I already believed going into this, to be entirely fair; What you believe becomes reality. I have a few beliefs about my character that have helped to shape me as a spiritual person that initially may not have been true. I am confident, strong, and powerful. All of those things are absolutely true about me today. Put another way, you could say that manifesting abundance is very similar to the idea ‘fake it ‘til you make it’ XD

If I can find out whether they’re still running the webinar (I feel like it was definitely pre-recorded, but I doubt there’s a video just laying around), I’ll share it with you folks on here <3

Thanks for coming to my TED talk XD

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Buy a house

They say that Joe Kennedy knew the time had come to offer every one of his stocks when he began hearing tips from the shoe-sparkle kid. In this manner a fortune was saved from the assaults of the Great Depression and the preparation laid for a present day political tradition. The fact is the thing that whatever "everybody" is doing, you need to do the invert. Today, with homeownership rates consistently declining (PDF) and magazines like Forbes and the Atlantic asserting that youngsters aren't into homeownership any longer the time is all in all correct to do the invert. On the off chance that you have the methods, rush to the closest available to be purchased property and purchase, purchase, purchase.

Obviously, to numerous this is a melody they've heard some time recently, and they would prefer not to tune in to any air pocket rationale. Others are hypnotized by stories of "shadow stock"— homes that are either bank-claimed and held off the market or basically halfway through the abandonment procedure and holding up to be seized by loan specialists at the primary indication of an ascent in costs. As indicated by this line of thought, house costs are fundamentally resistant to builds notwithstanding some significantly bigger methodical determination of the excess of terrible loaning. Shadow homes are essentially hiding out there, prepared to join the supply pool when purchasers arrive, ensuring that deal costs will stay discouraged.

That might be correct, however it's immaterial to the new case for homeownership, which has nothing to do with resale esteem and everything to do with rents.

As an illustrative case, consider the accompanying from the unpredictable where I live. In the rental part of the office, you can snatch a 754-square-foot loft for at least $2,269 every month. In the condominium partition, one entryway down, in a building likewise finished in 2008, a 868-square-foot flat is offering for $419,900. That recommends that on the off chance that you happened to have about $420,000 available, you could purchase the condominium and acquire over $27,000 a year leasing it out. That is a yield of more than 6 percent on your venture absolutely out of rental pay. You don't have to stress over whether the unit will acknowledge in cost or not after some time, simply expect that on account of expansion and populace development, you won't see a maintained ostensible decrease in rents. That is not a hazard free venture, but rather in the plan of things it's an awesome profit for a quite sure thing. For point of view, consider that Spanish government securities yields getting up to 6 percent is considered reason for aggregate frenzy. On the off chance that you need to put your $420,000 in U.S. government obligation you'll gain yourself yields that range from 3.13 percent on a 30-year attach to a mind-blowingly low 0.19 percent on a 1-year security.

Presently obviously you likely don't have $420,000 in trade lounging around out your work area drawer, yet it's a telling indication of the condition of the market.

It's comparably telling that loan fees for a standard 30-year settled rate home loan are running at pretty much 4 percent nowadays, which means it's less expensive to "lease" the cash from a bank than lease the loft from a designer. That proposes that even without having money close by, a man with a decent FICO score could make a benefit purchasing units and afterward pivoting and leasing them. Obviously by and by that'd be a bother, yet in the event that you're not right now a property holder, the lesson of the story is that you could get the home loan, purchase the condominium, and after that "lease it to yourself" at a benefit as opposed to leasing a loft.

Driving these value inconsistencies is a one-two punch of rising rents and declining contract qualification. This, thusly, all has its starting points in the budgetary emergency and proceeded with hazard avoidance grasping the saving money framework. The subprime loaning disaster implies that banks are presently significantly stricter about who they'll make a home loan advance to. In the meantime, the subsidence has battered individuals' capacity to reimburse obligations. These two elements have made it harder for individuals to fit the bill for advances. In the meantime, we've been building a record-low amount of new lodging units quite a long time since 2006, and numerous previous property holders are currently back on the rental market after abandonment. More individuals pursuing a reduced load of investment property implies rising rents and awesome arrangements for the individuals who can get a credit. Information from the land site Trulia recommends we've seen some genuinely eye-popping increments in asking rents around the nation. Of the 100 biggest metro zone rental markets, just five, of which the biggest is generally little Las Vegas, saw year-on-year decreases. Amid a similar period, rents rose 6.2 percent in the New York territory, 6.1 percent in Chicago, 4.1 percent in Houston, 4.9 percent in Dallas, 5.2 percent in Washington, 2.5 percent in Atlanta, a stunning 9.8 percent in Boston, and an astonishing 12.8 percent in Miami. Los Angeles and Philadelphia round out the 10 greatest metro regions in America with little cost increments. Over the 100 major metro territories, Trulia saw a 5 percent expansion. The upshot is that outside of San Francisco and Honolulu, the proportion of offer costs to yearly leases is presently beneath 15 in each American city, the cost at which it for the most part winds up plainly less expensive to purchase.

Significantly additionally striking, in more than 70 showcases the proportion is beneath 10. In a few spots like Detroit and the supercheap Ohio showcases in Dayton, Cleveland, Toledo, and Akron, that may speak to a conceivable figuring that the range has entered a semipermanent time of populace decrease. Be that as it may, urban areas like Atlanta, Houston, Chicago, and Minneapolis are likewise unfathomably shoddy and in no way, shape or form giving way.

The fundamental issue is that the building stock doesn't coordinate our hierarchical information. On a basic level, extremely rich or exceptionally financially sound people or firms should eat up modest homes and leasing them to less reliable people who can't exploit today's low loan costs. Such activities ought to lower leases and raise deal costs, killing the oddity. Be that as it may, no one truly has much involvement with expansive scale responsibility for family homes as investment properties and the coordinations of doing it appear to be terrible. In any case, some striking business people are giving it a shot and the administration is attempting to support more. These are smart thoughts, however it's not clear in the event that they'll work or how rapidly. With regards to exploiting extraordinary homebuying openings, there's still no genuine substitute for the out-dated single family purchasing a home to live in. That is the thing that the whole home loan loaning and land industry in the United States is set up to support, it's what our expense code is intended to empower, and it's precisely what you ought to do in case you're as of now leasing and fit the bill for an ordinary home loan.